“A good marriage is one which tolerates for adjustment and growth in the characters and in the way they express their love.” – Pearl S. Buck
When two peoples get wedded, it means they are making a big obligation. It means they should stay with each other through illness and in strength, for better-off or for poorer, till death do them part.
Getting into a wedding relationship is the sign of the richness of their deep romantic love for each other. Yet, their love for each other is shown in the course of time. First, there would be the amendment period. All couples go through that. There is a proverb that you only get to know the person if both of you are living under one roof.
The tedious of everyday life bring idealistic expectations. Marital disappointment comes in and it is expressed shortly just after the start of wedding days’ fever wears off. This is the time when limitations can be seen. Limitations can be blown out of proportion. Some unusual behavior which you found “cute” before now becomes annoying. Aside from your own complications as a couple, you have to agree with in-law relationships, money matters, and certain battles which have become the cause of your pressure and nervousness.
When negative sentiments and actions take over, it becomes the perfect formula for marriage conflict. Unless you become aware of your own unkind attitudes or actions, chances are, you won’t do something about it. Marriage is compliant with who that person really is. We only need to rehearsal willpower and learn not to have so many hopes.
The following tips will show you how to bring back that “zest” in your marital life:
TIPS ON PUTTING ROMANCE BACK TO YOUR MARRIAGE
1.
UNDERSTANDING – We all need comfort. Strengthen this by showing love, a simple
praise, hug, or kiss will do. We should learn to interconnect our feelings to
our life partner. Don’t be self-justifying. When you have a minor quarrel…say
“I’m sorry.” and really mean it. The sooner you do this; the sooner your life
partner will stop resenting you.
2.
LEARN TO ACCEPT- All weddings go through certain problems. The one that you
wedded turns out not to be the “angel” that you planned or the “knight of
shining armor.” Real love takes a lot of tolerance. So go beyond your
misconceptions on what or how your life partner should be. Rather, focus on
yourself and start to make the necessary changes needed to improve who you are
as a partner.
3.
MEET HALFWAY- In every situation, especially when you reach the point that you
are irritated, upset, and frustrated — you have to learn how to meet halfway.
In other words, you must know how to negotiate. No two human beings are
exactly similar. So settle your changes and learn to excuse each other right
away. Don’t let the sun go down on you without you and your life partner
finding the solution.
4. REKINDLE – How do you refresh and fix a worrying marriage? Bring back the love and familiarity. Work on it. Work on your marriage.
Like life…. marriage is not a bed of roses.
You have to work it out with your partner by investing time,
affection, money, and attention in each other. Bring back the friendship by
being frank, non-argumentative, and non-judgmental. Being happy together brings
good intellectual health as well as the physical.
Yes, you and your life partner should be on top of everything, be in control of keeping the romance blooming and let your bridal/groom blossom the way it was meant to be.
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